VH1 Pickup Artist 2 Casting

I've noticed lately my approach anxiety has grown. I'm finding it harder to talk to women of beauty unless they open to me first or one of my friends opens the set. I have actually been dancing a lot more at the clubs and it gets some girls to open me. Some will stroll up and start dancing with me, and some others will just sit back and wait until I walk pass them to say something to me. I really don't like rap or Soulja boy for that matter but I'm like one of the only people that goes to the clubs here in Columbus, OH that knows how to "crank dat" so I tend to get a lot of looks and compliments when I do that as well as general comments on my overall dancing skills. I can't break dance or anything, I just know how to move to the beat. I feel like I have the potential to get passed the social hook point and what not in a set, but with my approach anxiety limiting me to only those who open me I won't be able to get very far. I know what I need to say. I know how I need to act (for the most part..) but I just can't bring myself to approaching. It's even harder in bigger sets. A 2 set isn't that bad.. but a 5+ set of girls and even with some guys in it just intimidates the hell out of me. I would really appreciate any advice and things to try to get over approaching. I know I need to just be like "screw it, there is 20 other girls here I can talk to if this set blows me off, and theres countless other bars I can go to and find girls at." It's just so hard to actually feel that way when I'm your typical nice guy and although I'm comfortable with rejection, I'm not comfortable with being blown out of the water and not even given a fighting chance. I think that's another problem I have. I'm not quite sure how to disarm obstacles. I have a general idea but I'm not so sure that I have it down right and I think that hurts me as well. Until next time.....

- J