Posted on May 7, 2008 12:33 AM
Sorry, i broke my camera hense no second video. Ok, boldest pickup: I was in prague and at night in prague there are two things to do, bars or strip clubs. I chose the strip club. I went in watched the girls dance, i was one of three guys in the place. One of the dancers sat down next to me and we talked. THey try to get you to buy them drinks, but that's a suckers move. We talked and I asked what her biggest fantasy was, not sexual, just fantasy in general. It was to have some guy from another country come in a sweep her off her feet. I latched on to that and spun a story about fate and how anyone could be that guy, even me. We went out sight seeing and spent the whole next day together.
Hobbies: Snowboarding, i suck but i try, reading, creative writing, treasure hunting, social experimentation, blackjack, and hiking.
What makes women like me? What sets me apart from others? I would have to say that it's my quick wit and creativity, the combination of the two makes it easy to weave a tale that usually involves teasing them. Everyone gets a laugh and at the same time I'm giving the women crap, forcing her into a situation where she isn't in control.
Posted on May 7, 2008 12:33 AM
Sorry, i broke my camera hense no second video. Ok, boldest pickup: I was in prague and at night in prague there are two things to do, bars or strip clubs. I chose the strip club. I went in watched the girls dance, i was one of three guys in the place. One of the dancers sat down next to me and we talked. THey try to get you to buy them drinks, but that's a suckers move. We talked and I asked what her biggest fantasy was, not sexual, just fantasy in general. It was to have some guy from another country come in a sweep her off her feet. I latched on to that and spun a story about fate and how anyone could be that guy, even me. We went out sight seeing and spent the whole next day together.
Hobbies: Snowboarding, i suck but i try, reading, creative writing, treasure hunting, social experimentation, blackjack, and hiking.
What makes women like me? What sets me apart from others? I would have to say that it's my quick wit and creativity, the combination of the two makes it easy to weave a tale that usually involves teasing them. Everyone gets a laugh and at the same time I'm giving the women crap, forcing her into a situation where she isn't in control.
Posted on April 4, 2008 11:08 PM
The friend zone...is there any worse place to be. that's where i seem to always end up.
You always do the right thing, compliment her, listen to her problems, give her advice, help out in any way you can, always say the right thing, always pay for things when you go out and then that dreaded phrase rears its ugly head. "You're such a great friend." At this point you might as well pack your dick and balls up and send them on vacation cuz you're not gonna be needing them around her my friend. Then she goes out and hooks up with that guy who treats her like shit! Inside you're screaming. "Fuck! where did I go wrong? I did everything i was supposed to."
Yup, that's right chivalry is dead. women dont seem to want that guy any more.
SO what's the answer? Treat woman like crap? What if that's just not the type of guy I am? Then what?
Posted on March 26, 2008 12:12 AM
You see that woman you like at the bar. You watch her trying to think of what to say, maybe drink a few more hoping to build up the courage. A few things can happen at this point: one she leaves and you wonder what if, two another guy talks to her instead and you begin swearing at yourself (hopefully in your head), or three you get the nerve to go talk to her.
You walk towards her, your palms begin to sweat, you can hear your heart beating so lound in your head you begin to wonder whether or not it's going to explode. It's so loud it starts to block out the sound of everything else in the room. Why doesnt everyone else hear it? Seems like they should. Doubt begins to fill your mind. A million reasons why you shouldnt talk to her and why she wont talk to you fill your mind.
You get to the bar and one of two things happen; you order a drink and pretend like you dont see her or you actually try to talk to her.
Seems like all the smooth things that were in your head before you got up got sucked into a swirling vortex of nothing, so as you stand there mouth agape with her staring at you, you manage to stammer out something stupid lie "I like cheese." She gives you another one of those "great, one of these guy looks" and turns away.
That's not how every approach goes for me, but it seems like that's how most of them go. which is why i'm trying to get on this show.
I would love to have that doubt eliminated. So i can just walk up and KNOW how it's going to go.