You see that woman you like at the bar. You watch her trying to think of what to say, maybe drink a few more hoping to build up the courage. A few things can happen at this point: one she leaves and you wonder what if, two another guy talks to her instead and you begin swearing at yourself (hopefully in your head), or three you get the nerve to go talk to her.
You walk towards her, your palms begin to sweat, you can hear your heart beating so lound in your head you begin to wonder whether or not it's going to explode. It's so loud it starts to block out the sound of everything else in the room. Why doesnt everyone else hear it? Seems like they should. Doubt begins to fill your mind. A million reasons why you shouldnt talk to her and why she wont talk to you fill your mind.
You get to the bar and one of two things happen; you order a drink and pretend like you dont see her or you actually try to talk to her.
Seems like all the smooth things that were in your head before you got up got sucked into a swirling vortex of nothing, so as you stand there mouth agape with her staring at you, you manage to stammer out something stupid lie "I like cheese." She gives you another one of those "great, one of these guy looks" and turns away.
That's not how every approach goes for me, but it seems like that's how most of them go. which is why i'm trying to get on this show.
I would love to have that doubt eliminated. So i can just walk up and KNOW how it's going to go.

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